By Evelyn Eng I didn’t notice when it happened, but I had become my Asian parents. I struggled deeply with learning how to let go. Asian parents want their children to always remain children. I needed to teach my parents how to let me go and to learn how to serve them in their old […]
40 Days of Thankfulness
By Evelyn Eng My friend’s Facebook post caught my attention. She wanted to stop complaining and challenged her friends: “Who wants to join me?” “How long?” I asked. She only meant for the day, but I told her it takes 40 days to make a habit, and thus the challenge began for us both. “You’re […]
Red and Yellow, Black and White—We Are Precious
By Evelyn Eng I felt like an outcast in my own church. I did not grow up in a Christian family but became a believer during college. The people who first shared the love of Christ with me were part of a young adult fellowship group from a local Chinese church, which I later joined. […]
Choosing to Believe: My Grief Journey
By Evelyn Eng “Why not me? Love me.” In My Best Friend’s Wedding, Julia Roberts plays Julianne, whose longtime best friend, Michael, is getting married to someone else. She does everything she can think of to get him to love her and change his mind. Just before he is to be married, Julianne asks […]